I was a girl who suffered this abuse from bullies. First boys (twice put in the hospital) then girls. This continued until I dropped out of school in 9th grade. I am now 44 and I eventually got my GED and went on to college. Nobody listened to me when I was too afraid to go to school and struggling. People just shrugged it off as a 'right of passage' we all go through. I had numerous fantasies about what I would do to these people if I could, physically I was capable of seriously injuring any of these people. I was very strong for my gender and age, instead I abused myself. My visible feelings of inadequacies were so apparent, my teachers even humiliated me through middle school. I still suffer low self esteem and self worth with my peers at work as well as authority figures both real and imagined.
My point is, nobody addresses the bullies. Everyone wants to fry the mentally and emotionally unfortunates who've snapped. What I want to know is, do the bullies that were targeted think about the feelings of the human beings that they insult and damage on a daily basis? Most of these kids are haled as admirable for there academic achievements and the hope they hold out for the future of their world.
Do Not misunderstand me, I Do Not condone the horrors of school violence or any violence. But the problem begins with the bullies and those who don't recognize the sagging self esteem of those being bullied.
These bullies often grow up to be adult bullies, continuing the cycle. This needs to be addressed with the ones feeling the pressure and justice brought to the bullies.